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Hello Inside The Life Of A Black Lesbian.

I’ve been in a relationship with my partner for over 3 years and we have had our good and bad times like most relationship. But now being in this relationship makes me feel lonely at times. I communication level has affected our sex life in ways that are selfish and many times leaving me displeased and frustrated for the most part, I am writing you today because I’m in need of advice, I think for me,  I have reached the point where I don’t no longer feel the need to try to make it work.  It’s to the point that we barely acknowledge the present of one another and try our best to avoid being in the same room. I can’t help but think that maybe she is involved with someone else. because of the bitterness surrounding our relationship. I must admit at times I also have considered cheating, but for  some strange reason, the love I hold in my heart  for her won’t allow me to go that far.

What do you think about her situation? and what advice would you give her?

My response: I understand your pain. But only you can decide if what you have built with you partner worth saving or have it really reached its end. But please know that when it comes to love and being in love communication is key. If the two of you are avoiding each other this is not a good sign and breaking the ice of communication is a start and only then will both of you be able to decide what is best for the two of you. Once the doors of communication are open you can then ask her all the question that is heavy on your mind and make your final decision  basis on the response of hers. Many times we make the mistake of involving a third-party in a relationship that is clearly not over,  this will only lead to the hurt of everyone who is involved. Whether your decision is to stay or to go.  Giving yourself time to heal is best. Analyzing your mistakes and fault will only prepare you for a better you in the future. Best of Luck


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